1. Don't be too obsessive. If the other person doesn't call, they might have been too busy to answer. Leaving 5 voice mails after the first date just makes you appear desperate.
2. Don't move too quickly. It could cause a pipi le pew situation (you persue and the other runs away as fast as they can).
3. Don't talk too much about your ex. And if you do, don't say anything desparaging. You're starting a new relationship so empty your luggage at the door.
4. Be curtious. Please and thank you go a long way.
5. Be flexible. If you have to cancel, reschedule unless you really didn't want to go out with the other person to begin with.
6. Guys, I hate to say it, but bring cash to the first date. If the woman wants to go dutch great, but expect to pay on the first date.
7. Do open her doors. Hold out your hand if you have a really big truck and she has a skirt and heels, etc. Little things go a long way.
8. Do compliment the other person.
9. Do listen to them. Shut up about yourself for a few minutes to hear what they have to say. (I have to remind myself of this one personally).
10. Don't drink too much. Impaired judgement always follows.
11. Don't look too hard for faults in the other person. You'll always find something to sabotage the next relationship. You've been hurt before so you don't want to set yourself up to have it happen again.
12. Don't make plans out too quickly (i.e. don't start naming your future kids on teh second date).
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